Sarah, 42, came into my office three months into her diet. On paper, she was doing everything right. She was eating less. She'd lost 30 pounds in the first two months. And then the scale simply stopped moving.
She was miserable. "By 3pm I'm exhausted," she told me. "My workouts feel like a chore. By dinner I have nothing left. And the worst part? I'm getting smaller, but I'm not getting firmer. I just feel softer."
I hear some version of this almost every week. And it's almost always the same two mistakes.
Neither one has anything to do with willpower.